TYING KNOTS

If it doesn't work keep working because you aren't finished.

It will work, especially if we are at our end. Most of us fail, however, because we aren't. On the contrary, many of us refuse to entangle in the interim knots that are inevitable. So, we double our dilemma by tying one in the middle, upholding what hinders our success.

SUCCESS AND SANITY

No one smiles when a friend is ill.

Sanity demands that we laugh at ourselves. In fact laughter heals the soul, according to Solomon. But if it persists it could signal sickness, because sane people don't let years lapse without pursuing their dreams. Nor do they don apish grins when asked about their goals. If so, their laughter is sickness not salutary. Sane people don't use humor to hide their hurts or to silence their haunts (indefinitely at least). This is a tactic of the insane who use mirth to mask their lunacy. Yet beneath their hearty humor is a hurting child in need of healing.

WORKING DREAMS

Moods prevent some and moats prevent others from transforming themselves.

Dreamers labor when failure follows. They battle because they are determined to succeed. In doing so, they create the conditions that nurture their dreams. Characteristically, they use luck when it falls and fear when it stalls and discourages. During these times, moreover, they celebrate themselves for enduring because they know just how easily failure discourages.

ON CONCEIT

Imagine having no habit that required no concern. Imagine being flawless and debt-free. How would you handle this mantle? Is conceit as inevitable as we say when too many things go our way? Or can we be accomplished without being tarnished thereby?

THE BLOCK

Rappers blame "the block" excessively. Everything fierce happens here. Girls get pregnant and guys get murdered for being on the wrong corner wearing the wrong colors. Metaphorically, the phrase conveys the miseries of poverty and the pursuit of fleeting gains. Other artists exploit "the hood" instead, stoking its streets with beats that embellish its quality.

LIVING PROOF

Living proof is harder than finding it. Hence, its rarity. Even so, some people are living proof despite the pressures that discourage. When they emerge they discipline our urge to deny our duty to embody.

DEBT AND DESTINY

Wishing is risky when destiny is listening.

Destiny demands what debtors don't, and isn't as willing to settle our account. In fact it sours when ignored and sabotages when denied. Though sympathetic, it rejects substitutes and insists on itself. Only by yielding do we appease it. Until then interest accrues and penalties punish us, though superficially our pursuits please us. In this regard, not even success soothes as we assert unless it serves destiny's ends.